As a viral TikTok video captures the relatable frustrations of parenthood, one mom’s song reminds us that it’s okay to laugh at the mess and find beauty in the chaos.
Being a stay-at-home mom of three is no easy feat. Add in the pressure of social media and a passion for creative expression, and it becomes even more challenging.
One mom‘s idea for a viral TikTok video sprouted naturally one day while watching and singing along to Disney’s ‘The Little Mermaid‘ with her children. Haha. Actually, I kind of do have these thoughts and feelings, just in a little different way. Her viral song captured the relatable aspects of parenthood: constant laundry, dishwashing, meal planning, and most importantly, the lack of sleep.
TikTok's algorithm favors short-form, visually engaging content.
Viral TikTok videos often feature dance challenges, lip-syncs, or comedic skits.
They can reach millions of views in a matter of hours, with some creators using hashtags and collaborations to amplify their reach.
According to a study, 55% of TikTok users discover new content through hashtags, while 45% use the 'For You' page.
The platform's vast user base and addictive nature contribute to its viral video phenomenon.
The responsibilities often feel endless. Osborne notes that this ‘not glamorous part of motherhood’ is rarely discussed. Everyone’s talking about new milestones their kids are reaching, but we all know there’s laundry piled up in another room, and dishes to do tonight. Her song didn’t just capture the common frustrations of being a stay-at-home parent – it also highlighted a deeper emotional connection.
Motherhood has undergone significant changes throughout history, influenced by cultural, social, and economic factors.
In ancient times, mothers were often seen as caregivers and nurturers, while in modern societies, they are expected to balance work and family responsibilities.
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), 1 in 5 women worldwide experience maternal mortality during childbirth.
The rise of single motherhood and same-sex parents has also led to redefinitions of traditional family structures.
There are times when Osborne feels like she wants to have a full conversation with a grown-up without having to explain what that means. She’s not alone in this feeling. Her viral song resonated deeply with many on TikTok, who shared their own experiences of feeling like they’re losing themselves in motherhood.
Osborne also highlights the unspoken pressures of trying to maintain a ‘perfect’ home while raising children. Every mother‘s journey is unique – some moms work, others stay home – and there’s a wide range of what it means to be a mother. Her song reminds us that we’re all actually working this out together.
Reactions from her friends and family have been overwhelmingly positive. Osborne reveals that her mother, who was also a stay-at-home mom, loves her video because she sees herself in it. The response from her wider audience has also been heartwarming, with conversations starting between moms in the comments. These conversations show the power of social media in building communities and helping mothers feel less alone.
Despite the viral success, balancing creativity with parenthood remains a delicate act. Osborne reminds us that staying off our phones – or at least setting boundaries – changes everything. For her, keeping boundaries is essential to maintaining a healthy work-life balance. ‘Motherhood for me always has to come first,’ she explains. ‘This is their childhood; this is their life.’
Work-life balance refers to the ability to manage one's time effectively between work and personal responsibilities.
It involves setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, and making time for self-care and relaxation.
Statistics show that employees who achieve a better work-life balance are more productive, have improved mental health, and experience reduced turnover rates.
According to a study by Gallup, employees who work 25-49 hours per week report higher well-being and life satisfaction compared to those working longer or shorter hours.
When it comes to staying inspired in the chaos of raising young children, Osborne finds creativity in unexpected places. She suggests trying new things outside of that creative space – whether it’s sewing, crocheting, or just finding something new to try.
In finding balance between the demands of parenting and her passion for creativity, Osborne reminds others that it’s okay to laugh at the mess, embrace the chaos, and find beauty in the process. Through her videos, she continues to build a community of parents who share these same experiences, offering them a much-needed reminder that they’re not alone.
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