Michelle Obama sets the record straight on rumored divorce, revealing her decision to prioritize her own well-being and take control of her life.
As a woman who has dedicated her life to public service and supporting her husband’s career, I have often been asked about the state of my marriage. Recently, rumors have surfaced that my relationship with Barack is under strain, and I want to address them directly.
Michelle Obama is a former First Lady of the United States, serving from 2009 to 2017.
Born on January 17, 1964, in Chicago, Illinois, she graduated from Princeton University and Harvard Law School.
As First Lady, she launched several initiatives, including 'Let's Move!' to combat childhood obesity and 'Reach Higher' to promote education.
Her memoir, 'Becoming', was a bestseller, and she has received numerous awards for her advocacy work.
I’ve recently found myself in a position where I can control my own calendar, something I believe every woman should be able to do as she grows into her independence. However, this newfound freedom has led some people to assume that Barack and I are divorcing. They couldn’t fathom the idea of me making decisions for myself, assuming instead that our marriage is failing.
Born on August 4, 1961, in Honolulu, Hawaii, Barack Obama is the 44th President of the United States.
He served two terms from 2009 to 2017.
Obama graduated from Columbia University and Harvard Law School.
Before politics, he worked as a community organizer and civil rights attorney.
Elected to the Illinois Senate in 1996, he later became a U.S. Senator from 2005 to 2008.
As President, “Obama” signed the Affordable Care Act and ended the Iraq War.
He also took steps to address climate change and promote LGBTQ+ rights.
“It’s a heavy burden to carry, and one that I’ve grappled with throughout my life.”
This societal pressure can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to women. We’re socialized to put others’ needs before our own, often at the expense of our own happiness. It’s a heavy burden to carry, and one that I’ve grappled with throughout my life.

I want to make it clear that I chose to carve out more time for myself this year. Not because I wanted to hurt anyone or abandon my duties, but because I realized that I needed to prioritize my own well-being. As a woman, we’re often expected to put others first, even when it means sacrificing our own needs.
Michelle Obama is a former First Lady of the United States, married to the 44th President Barack Obama.
Born on January 17, 1964, in Chicago, Illinois, she grew up in a working-class family.
She graduated from Princeton University and Harvard Law School.
As First Lady, she launched the 'Let's Move!' initiative to combat childhood obesity and supported education programs.
After leaving the White House, she wrote her bestselling memoir 'Becoming' and has since become a prominent advocate for women's rights and education.
I’m not saying that I’ve made no sacrifices in our marriage. Barack and I have faced challenges before, particularly during his time in the White House. But I am saying that I’ve learned to take care of myself, to prioritize my own happiness and fulfillment.
Despite the rumors, Barack and I are committed to each other. We celebrated our 32nd anniversary last year, and we’re still working together on various projects and initiatives. I’m proud to be a partner in his work, supporting him as he continues to make a positive impact on the world.
I know that some people may not understand why I’ve chosen to take a step back from certain duties, but for me, it’s about finding balance and making choices that align with my values and goals. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it in the end.
As I continue on this journey of self-discovery and growth, I want to leave a message for all the girls out there who are struggling to find their place in the world. Don’t be afraid to take control of your own life, to make choices that align with your values and goals. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled, and it’s okay to prioritize yourself along the way.
I still care deeply about girls’ education and empowerment, and I’ll continue to work tirelessly on these issues. But for now, I’m just taking care of myself, one decision at a time.
- bbc.com | Michelle Obama dismisses divorce rumours